![]() You are right, children need space to grow and learn. This is what parenting is about.we try to teach our children to stay out of trouble.but sometimes life doesn't work the way we want.and when children stumble it is good to have a parent there to help them find their way again. I saw her looking at the site in the report I was emailed and I had the account taken down and reported the "mean girl" to the school, as well as having a long talk with my daughter. my daughter was shocked and hurt about the site and very embarrassed. this account asked people to contact us for sex with any of the girls. The latest time some girl from school got mad at my girl and made a social networking account that had our phone number address and pictures of all my girls. I do not spy on my children I watch what they do.and I make sure they know this.to date I have had to step in 4 times to help them. I know about and use vnc and the like quite often (mostly when I get a call at work from the girls saying something is not working).very good suggestion.thank you (that said I will add my two cents towards the end of my post) #Eblaster spector pro softwareI am not looking to start a flame war about the merits of parenting I simply am trying to find a way to switch to linux and as such looking for software to meet my needs. Mike.that is why I have the computer in the living room Greetings all and thank you for your time in this matter, Last edited by kaldor May 28th, 2010 at 03:41 PM. For all I know, they may truly NEED monitoring That's just my opinion though, and I don't know you or your children. ![]() That's the extreme end of things, but even small measures of monitoring can cause problems. She is trying her best to move out by getting work and a job, but even that is proving difficult because her mother doesn't want her going to a higher education because it's "too much" for a girl. On top of it, her mother goes around telling friends/family everything that she finds in y girlfriend's room, including personal stuff that shouldn't even be mentioned. It causes immense amount of stress between the two, she isn't even allowed to ride a bike down the road (last time she tried to ride a bike, her mother hopped in the car and chased after her shouting for her to come home). My girlfriend was unable to use the computer until she was around 17, and even then she was only allowed 1 hour a day. I looked at it, and her brother was secretly monitoring and remotely connection to her laptop and sending reports to her mother. When her brother gave her a laptop for christmas, she asked me why things were becoming so slow. She's 19 now, and her mother goes into her bedroom every time my girlfriend leaves and goes through all of her things. My girlfriend's mother is a helicopter parent who tried (and still tries) to monitor every aspect of her life. It made me feel like I wasn't being trusted and like I was unable to do certain things out of fear my parents would disapprove of it (no, not porn). Personally, when I was younger using the computer when I was 8-12, I absolutely HATED having parents try to monitor me. #Eblaster spector pro how toComputers can be abused, but if your kids are smart they'll learn more about life and how to better figure out how to deal with things. Kids want a way they can escape from their parents constant watching when they are at home. To elaborate on what I mentioned earlier. This is what schools in the area use to monitor activity. Of course, set up the desktop Ubuntu to allow incoming connections from you Just get the IP of the desktop they use and use that panel applet to connect. ![]() Not sure of the name, but it's along those lines. There's a panel applet called "remote desktop viewer" which allows this. If you *really* feel the need to do this, try VNC it's not the same as what you mentioned, but you can use it to view what's on their screen and even take over without them knowing. In my opinion, monitoring kids at younger ages could be a bad thing would you like it if your kids were listening in on your phone calls without your knowledge? ![]()
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